
So I thought I should also throw out some pictures of my university -- where I spend so much of my time here!
It is really a beautiful university for Oman -- green patches, and some gardens, and its a great place to just sit and study and work. And we also get to meet and chat with Omani students who are studying here for the summer, and with our PFs (Peer Facilitators)
Daily Schedule- Saturday through Wednesday (our school week here is different because Oman follows a weekly schedule based on Islam, where Friday is the holy day, and Thursday and Friday are the weekend)
Our daily schedule looks like this:
8:30-12:30 Arabic Class with professors. Break is usually from 10:15-10:45, it sounds generous, but really it's necessary if you're stuck in a class with a teacher you don't like as Emily and I both are.
12:30-2:10 Lunch. Sometimes we go out, sometimes we order in, sometimes we eat really bad egg, cabbage, and ketchup sandwiches from the snack shack on campus, but most often we just pack lunch from the free hotel breakfast. We don't really go out that often because it's a long trek through the glaring sun or the rain. Well, not really the rain, but the cloudy drizzle that manages to have a very strong glare at the same time. Therefore, it's really not that pleasant to go walking around near the university....but luckily, the university is really pretty and comfortable!
2:10-3:30 First PF (Peer Facilitator) session. I meet with a girl named Mona, she's 29 and is married, and has two kids, a girl who's 10 and a boy who's 6. I would post a picture of her, but she covers her whole face outside of the university, and has asked me expressly not to post any pictures of her on the Internet. Emily's PF is Fatima, she's 22, and is from the mountains surrounding Salalah, (aka 'a mountain girl'), and only covers her whole face when she's in the Salalah -- not when she's in the mountains.
3:40-5:00 Second PF session. I meet with a girl named Oumaima. She's 23 and went to a "mixed" private school in Muscat, so she tends to be much more open to gender mixing, and more liberal in other ways too. Partly this is also due to the fact that she's from Muscat, which is much more cosmopolitan than Salalah, which is smaller and more conservative. Oumaima is an accounting student here, and will graduate next year. She is really hard working, and wants to do her Masters in New Zealand, where her fiance (also Omani) is currently studying. She met her fiance in her mixed highschool, which is considered very progressive here, (ie that she met him before becoming engaged to him and is not related to him).
Home at 5:00 for dinner, homework, exploring, etc.
Q and A
1) Why don't women cover inside the university?
As I mentioned before, Mouna covers outside the university but not inside. Why is this? Well, girls are actually forbidden by law from wearing the complete face covering (which covers everything, including eyes) and the niquab (which covers everything except for the eyes) inside the university.
This law was put in place about 3 or 4 years ago, because the University
was having problems with girls wearing the niqab, specifically, teachers didn't know who their students were, and couldn't form any real relationship with them, and also there were a lot of incidents of cheating -- anyone could come in to class and take an exam for someone else. Also, it maybe be in response to an urge from inside the university to establish a more progressive learning environment inside the university.
So they outlawed wearing the niqab inside the university -- but in response about 50% of the girl students dropped out -- their families were really upset and complained to the administration about having their daughters required to show their faces. Crazy isn't it??
Now, the university has helped pave the way for girls to not have to wear the niquab in public, that is definitely becoming more common now. But at the time it was scandalous!
2) What is this 'mixed' schooling you speak of?
In Oman, all government schools are segregated, based on gender. There are male schools with male teachers and female schools with female teachers. Only in private, fee-paying schools will you find boys and girls taught together. Oumaima, my PF, went to one of these schools because her family wanted to give her an advantage in English, because, as I mentioned before, English language teaching is quite weak in Oman, despite being the second language. I think these mixed schools are more for the wealthy, so it makes sense that they are often more liberal in terms of gender relations.
3) Why are there two separate cafeterias and entrance doors?
Gender separation. The jury is out on whether separate can ever be equal here. Everything is done to limit women and men interacting. I really am not sure why, part of it is justified by the need for modesty in Islam, but otherwise this is clearly a cultural tradition (of the Gulf) that is just justified by Islam, not required by it. Oumaima, who despite being quite liberal in many ways is very religious, and explained to me that though men and women are equal in Islam, their roles are different in society. We will definitely come back to this in other topics.
4) Why don't we like our professors?
No time for this now....it would take too long to explain...